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"How to Lose Your Moth­er: A Daugh­ter’s Memoir"
Mol­ly Jong-Fast
a JBC Author Event with Temple Beth Jacob
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"How to Lose Your Moth­er: A Daugh­ter’s Memoir"
Mol­ly Jong-Fast
From the Publisher
 From the polit­i­cal writer and pod­cast­er, a fero­cious­ly hon­est and dis­arm­ing­ly fun­ny mem­oir about her elu­sive mother’s encroach­ing demen­tia and a reck­on­ing with her com­pli­cat­ed child­hood.
Mol­ly Jong-Fast is the only child of a famous woman, writer Eri­ca Jong, whose sen­sa­tion­al book Fear of Fly­ing launched her into sec­ond-wave fem­i­nist star­dom. She grew up yearn­ing for a con­nec­tion with her dreamy, glam­orous, just out of reach moth­er, who always seemed to be head­ing some­where that wasn’t with Mol­ly. When, in 2023, Eri­ca was diag­nosed with demen­tia just as Molly’s hus­band dis­cov­ered he had a rare can­cer, Jong-Fast was cat­a­pult­ed into a trans­for­ma­tive year.
How to Lose Your Moth­er is a com­pul­sive­ly read­able mem­oir about an intense moth­er-daugh­ter rela­tion­ship, a some­times chaot­ic upbring­ing with a fame-hun­gry par­ent, and the upheavals that chal­lenge our hard-won adult­hood. A pitch-per­fect bal­ance of accep­tance and rage, humor and heart, How to Lose Your Moth­er tells a uni­ver­sal sto­ry of loss along­side a sin­gu­lar sto­ry of a lit­er­ary life. This is a mem­oir that will stand along­side the clas­sics of the genre.

"The Girl Ban­dits of the War­saw Ghet­to: The True Sto­ry of Five Coura­geous Young Women Who Sparked an Uprising"
Eliz­a­beth R. Hyman
a JBC Author Event with Temple Beth Jacob
Sunday, April 12 | 2pm

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"The Girl Ban­dits of the War­saw Ghet­to: The True Sto­ry of Five Coura­geous Young Women Who Sparked an Uprising"
Eliz­a­beth R. Hyman
Review By Gila Wertheimer – October 6, 2025

To many, the name Mordechai Anielewicz is syn­ony­mous with the War­saw Ghet­to Upris­ing of 1943. Less well-known, among some 750 ghet­to fight­ers who held out for near­ly a month against the over­whelm­ing Nazi forces were many women who fought — and fell — along­side the men. Their names are scarce­ly invoked or remem­bered. Now, Eliz­a­beth R. Hyman has focused on five of these women to shed new light on the remark­able sto­ry of that resistance.
The women Hyman brings into the fore­ground are Zivia Lubetkin, Adi­na Bla­dy-Schweiger and Vlad­ka Meed, who all sur­vived the war; and Tosia Alt­man and Tema Schnei­der­man, who did not. Oth­er women also fig­ure promi­nent­ly in Hyman’s recount­ing of events.
As they await­ed the Ger­man attack on the ghet­to, Zivia — a leader and part of a group of thir­ty fight­ers — wrote, ​“A tremor of joy mixed with a shud­der of fear passed through all of us. But we sup­pressed our emo­tions and reached for our guns.” They knew, of course, that they were out­num­bered. Zivia, wrote one of the com­man­ders, Marek Edel­man, ​“sees her­self as a sim­ple sol­dier, but her author­i­ty among the fight­ing groups is very strong.” It was April 19, 1943, ​“a love­ly spring day,” observed Edel­man. It was also the start of Passover.
That ini­tial Ger­man attack on the ghet­to and the resis­tance to it had gone on for two hours, when, to the amaze­ment of the ghet­to fight­ers, the Ger­mans retreat­ed, leav­ing not a sin­gle Jew­ish casu­al­ty. ​“We were stunned and left breath­less by our vic­to­ry,” wrote Zivia. The Ger­mans, alas, would reen­ter the ghet­to — this time with tanks.
The women who par­tic­i­pat­ed in the upris­ing fought in the resis­tance, but they also served as couri­ers; pass­ing as Aryans, they had free­dom of move­ment. As such, not only did they relay infor­ma­tion in and out of the ghet­to, but they also acquired guns and explo­sives, and smug­gled them inside. Their male coun­ter­parts called the women ​“girls”; the Nazis referred to Jews as ban­diten. Thus does Hyman arrive at her title, fash­ion­ing epi­thets of inequal­i­ty and racism into an appel­la­tion of honor.
With exten­sive use of pri­ma­ry and sec­ondary sources, Hyman has retold this famil­iar sto­ry of resis­tance and upris­ing with an infu­sion of detail and dra­ma. The courage, orga­ni­za­tion, ded­i­ca­tion, and inven­tive­ness of the fea­tured young women, who faced life-and-death sit­u­a­tions on a dai­ly basis, con­tin­ues to amaze.
While the uprising’s end­ing is known, The Girl Ban­dits of the War­saw Ghet­to tells a sto­ry of such hero­ism, and Hyman’s researched por­trait is so cap­ti­vat­ing, that this retold piece of Jew­ish his­to­ry is dif­fi­cult to put down and impos­si­ble to forget. 
Gila Wertheimer is Asso­ciate Edi­tor of the Chica­go Jew­ish Star. She is an award-win­ning jour­nal­ist who has been review­ing books for 35 years.